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Share Music — How Songs Shape Memory, Heal Stress, and Strengthen Connection

Anthony Carlyle Season 2 Episode 3

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Music isn’t background noise — it’s language.
It’s how we remember who we are, how we love, and how we heal.

In this week’s Do Better episode, the card is “Share Music.”
Anthony dives deep into the science of sound — how your favorite song literally changes your brain chemistry, lowers stress hormones, and strengthens your relationships.

This one’s personal: from writing his wedding vows out of song lyrics to rediscovering old memories through music, Anthony blends storytelling with neuroscience to explain why sharing a song can be one of the most generous things you can do.

In this episode:
🎶 Why music hits the brain like a full-body workout (Harvard Health, Ohio University)
🧠 How songs trigger vivid life memories (Durham University)
💞 The chemistry behind connection — dopamine, oxytocin, and shared rhythm (Greater Good Science Center)
❤️ Why couples who share music report higher trust and commitment (Frontiers in Psychology, 2024)
🔁 Three simple ways to turn music-sharing into a daily ritual

Key Takeaway:
When you share a song, you’re not just sending a link — you’re opening a window into your soul. It’s medicine for your brain, an anchor for your story, and one of the most powerful ways to do better together.

Mentioned in this episode:

  • Harvard Health — Can Music Improve Our Health and Quality of Life?
  • Greater Good Science Center — How Music Bonds Us Together
  • Frontiers in Psychology (2024) — Music-Based Interventions for Relationships and Well-Being


 Share a song with someone today — your partner, your friend, your kid.
 Tag #DoBetterMovement and tell us what track you picked.

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